Do not chase every trend

Recently, I got involved in a heated debate with a friend. Apparently she had nothing sexy to wear to a party but as I went through her wardrobe, I came across this beautiful black bandage dress.

She tried it on and looked really beautiful, but said it was out of style so she could not wear it.

Dear ladies, just because a style is no longer popular on the red carpet or Elle magazine says it is out of style does not mean you should throw it away. It is all about how great you look and how it makes you feel on the inside.

Truth be told, not many of us can afford to buy the latest designs as soon as they hit the market. Even if you are able to get what the top designers have for this year’s spring/summer collection, there is no guarantee that they will look good on you. Getting caught up in chasing trends can result in wearing the most recent outfits but looking so off in them. Someone wearing what could be termed as ‘last season’ but turning eyes towards her is way better.

The trick is to not buy the obvious looks when a trend hits town. For example, the gladiators were an in thing but up to now you meet someone showing off a pair of well-manicured feet in subtle gladiators and you cannot help but notice.

Would it be the same for the knee high gladiators? No. If you live in NYC and follow trends, maybe. But if you are in Kampala, you bought the right outfit and still look as hot in it as you did last year, go on rock it. To hell with chasing trends.

Travel chic and comfy

A bus trip is way different from flying to your destination. But in both cases it is easy to tell who is the frequent traveller and who is not.

When travelling, comfort should be number one priority. When you are comfortable in your clothes and shoes, not only will you have a smooth trip, the people seated next to you will have no reason to complain.

Some fashionable people you may follow such as Kim Kardashian can dress in certain ways because they expect to find paparazzi at the airport and don’t want to appear in the tabloids looking anything but hot.

But have you ever wondered what is in her carry-on luggage?

You do not expect her to wear those heels throughout the flight, plus the inconvenience they can cause if she has to make her way to the lavatory.

Since there may be unexpected changes in the temperatures, it is better to wear layers so that you can shed off the scarf or cardigan when it gets warmer or put them on when temperatures drop.

The shorts, sandals and chiffon top may look cute before takeoff but after 10 hours of a cold flight, you will feel and look horrible to your receiving party.

Do not count on the inflight blankets. You will be disappointed.

So wear something that covers your legs, comfortable shoes and keep a simple sweater or scarf within reach.

If you still want to look super elegant for whoever is receiving you upon arrival, there is an option of visiting the ‘ladies’ and getting your swagg on before exiting.

Whatever you do, do not compromise your comfort.

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Get sporty with baseball jacket

Many guys will not admit it, but there is something really cute and sexy about a babe wearing what is considered a man’s apparel.

From men-inspired shoes, tops to headgear, a lady will come off naughty (in a nice way) and turn lots of heads.

The latest fad in town is the baseball jacket.

This laidback sporty look is trending in the casual section. Remember the bomber jacket craze? Yes. It has gone all sporty.

You may never have heard about the game of baseball or your school has never played it, but this is a fashion statement you need to make.

Before you plan to buy one or borrow your boyfriend’s, here are a few tricks on how to pull off the look.

It is important that the jacket is the right size. Anything a little too large may kill the look and you may end up coming off as shabby or as trying to send a message that the original owner – your boyfriend – is a bit on the bigger side compared to you.

For that ultimate athletic look, wear a pair of slim fitting jeans.

For me, a pretty, navy blue jacket, white top on the inside and totally ripped sky blue denim jeans plus a pair of Chuck Taylors (All Stars) or lace up boots, is the ultimate look. But also experiment with skirts and short shorts.

 

 

Invest in a strapless bra

 

It is finny how a simple undergarment can spoil an otherwise would-be great look. A case in point is the bra.

Many people pay attention the fitting – which is very important – but not so much to the straps.

That explains why the disgusting look of bra straps peeking their ugly eyes underneath a strapless dress is common.

If you are going to wear a strapless dress or top, do not leave the house unless you are wearing a strapless bra underneath.

You are better off going bra-less if you can pull that off than kill the look with a bra with straps.

The unease or fear of having a strapless bra fall off could be the reason some women are not familiar with the undergarment. But they are designed to prop your mounds up steadily.

To avoid that awkward moment when you feel the need to hide behind a friend to subtly adjust your bra, here are a few tips.

The most important reason for the fall could be the fabric. So invest in a high-quality strapless bra because the fabric and quality of the bra is one of the major reasons why your bra may be falling.

This kind of bra must also be the right size. Stores such as Woolworths offer free services to ladies seeking to know their bra sizes.

Alternatively, go for a strapless, long-line bra that covers your full torso, or up to your rib cage. This makes it hard for it to slip.

Many opt for the clear or transparent straps – a highly recommended option – but if you can go totally strapless, the neater.